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Dec 20
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"Sitting under the mistletoe
(Pale-green, fairy mistletoe),
One last candle burning low,
All the sleepy dancers gone, Just one candle burning on,
Shadows lurking everywhere:
Some one came, and kissed me there."
~ Mistletoe Poem by Walter de la Mare (1873-1956)
In the enchanting Victorian language of flowers, mistletoe carries the charming message of “Kiss me” or “Affection" while holly represents "protection", "domesticity", and even foresight! This flirty jig contains plenty of figures for knowing glances and even contains a "Spoke" figure, allowing the first couple with left hands joined to set and move counterclockwise around the center of the set to meet and greet all the corners with a smile and a wink! The mistletoe plant, a hemiparasitic wonder that thrives in harmony with its host trees, adds a touch of life to the bare branches of winter. Gathered in the frosty season, its lush green leaves and delicate white berries have long been symbols of Christmas joy and tradition. The delightful custom of kissing under the mistletoe first appeared in Europe in the 1500s, weaving magic into holiday gatherings. By the 1820s, Washington Irving rekindled this romantic tradition in his “Christmas Eve” tales, where each kiss under the mistletoe came with the plucking of a berry. Once the last berry was gone, so too was the holiday’s playful license to steal a kiss! ❤️ 🌱 💋 💚
Mistletoe and Holly
Of the many plant-related Christmas traditions, decking the halls with boughs of holly and kissing under the mistletoe have long histories.
Holly has long been associated with winter holidays. Early Europeans used holly as ornamentation during their winter solstice celebrations. The winter solstice, which occurs in late December in the northern hemisphere, is the longest night of the year and signified the gradual lengthening of days and coming spring.
In Norse mythology, holly was associated with Thor, god of thunder, and holly plants grown by the home were thought to prevent lightning strikes. Ancient Romans used holly as decor during Saturnalia, a festival dedicated to Saturn, god of agriculture and husbandry. Holly's symbolism of the new season made it an appropriate and colorful ornament for winter festivities.
A fanciful story regarding the tradition of kissing under the mistletoe goes back to the Norse god Baldur — second son of Odin, god of truth and light — who was so beloved by the other gods that they sought to protect him from all the dangers of the world. His mother, the goddess Frigg, "took an oath from fire and water, iron and all metals, stones and earth, from trees, sicknesses and poisons, and from all four-footed beasts, birds and creeping things, that they would not hurt Baldur." And thus the beautiful god was deemed invincible.
However, at a large gathering soon after, stones, arrows, and flame were all flung at Baldur to test his might. Nothing worked, and he walked away unscathed. Jealous of Baldur's new powers, the mischievous Loki set out to find the one thing on Earth that might be able to hurt him. He found that the goddess Frigg forgot to ask mistletoe — tiny and forgotten — not to harm her beloved son. In the end, a dart fashioned from the small plant was used to murder Baldur in front of all the other gods who loved him so dearly.
Devastated, Frigg's tears became the berries of the plant, and it was decreed that "mistletoe would never again be used as a weapon and that she would place a kiss on anyone who passed under it."
The kissing custom may date to at least the 1500s in Europe. Author Washington Irving referred to this custom in “Christmas Eve,” from his 1820 collection of essays and stories, The Sketch Book of Geoffrey Crayon, Gent. In Irving’s day, each time a couple kissed under a mistletoe sprig, they removed one of the white berries. When the berries were all gone, so was the license to kiss.
Sitting under the mistletoe
(Pale-green, fairy mistletoe),
One last candle burning low,
All the sleepy dancers gone,
Just one candle burning on,
Shadows lurking everywhere:
Some one came, and kissed me there.
Tired I was; my head would go
Nodding under the mistletoe
(Pale-green, fairy mistletoe),
No footsteps came, no voice, but only,
Just as I sat there, sleepy, lonely,
Stooped in the still and shadowy air
Lips unseen—and kissed me there.
- Mistletoe Poem by Walter de la Mare (1873-1956)
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